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		<title>Goals, Dreams and Things</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>With my recent decision to go back to grad school, I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of self-analysis.  Dream analysis.  Goal analysis.  Talent analysis.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been very scientific.</p>
<p>Not really.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve mostly just been trying to figure out what makes me happy, what I&#8217;m passionate about, and what I could see myself doing for the rest of my life.  I envy people who are able to make a living doing things that they enjoy wholeheartedly.</p>
<p>This, Joggernauts (I made that up&#8230;see, clever), is how I want to feel about my job:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/passion_night.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2208 aligncenter" title="Romance" src="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/passion_night.jpg" alt="Romance" width="400" height="400" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://thenewwriters.files.wordpress.com/2009/07/passion_night.jpg" target="_blank">credit here</a></p>
<p>What?  I&#8217;m not passionate about accounting?  The career that I&#8217;ve been married to for the past ten years?  All of the sexy financial statements and budgets and number crunching?  They don&#8217;t make my heart sing with joy?</p>
<p>Eh.  Not so much.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s one of those things that I&#8217;m good at, but it just doesn&#8217;t do it for me.  Kind of like Star Jones and Al Reynolds.  Something is just <em><strong>off</strong></em>.  I didn&#8217;t realize this fact without a shadow of a doubt until I started to study and sit for my CPA exam.  My heart just wasn&#8217;t in it.  It occurred to me, after sitting for two of the sections and spending countless MONTHS of my life studying, that I did not want to be a CPA.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t want to spend the next 30-35 years of my adult life calculating depreciation of fixed assets and accounting for leases, liabilities &amp; bonds.</p>
<p>Sounds fascinating, right?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/boring.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2209 aligncenter" title="boring" src="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/boring.jpg" alt="boring" width="472" height="296" /></a><a href="http://churchfun.com/images/wp/boring.jpg">credit here</a></p>
<p>Those leases, liabilities &amp; bonds really threw me for a loop.  And accounting for stock transactions.  And the constantly changing FAR regulations.</p>
<p>Ugh.  I get chills just thinking about all of that.</p>
<p>Over the past year, I came to terms with the fact that being a CPA just wasn&#8217;t for me.  I&#8217;d much rather learn about triglycerides and genetically modified organisms than I would about auditing and attestation.</p>
<p>In the end, I decided that accounting is boring, but nutrition is FUN!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/fun-with-nutrition-t5921.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2210 aligncenter" title="fun-with-nutrition-t5921" src="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/fun-with-nutrition-t5921.jpg" alt="fun-with-nutrition-t5921" width="420" height="298" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://www.edupics.com/fun-with-nutrition-t5921.jpg">credit here</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The problem is, in a world where we are mostly just encouraged to find a job and pay our bills, how do you step outside of the box, take a leap of faith, and pursue something you&#8217;re passionate about?  Heck, sometimes, we don&#8217;t even know what we want to do&#8230;all we know is that we&#8217;re not satisfied with what we&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I just happened upon something that I found helpful.  A little direction in the confusing world of pursuing one&#8217;s dreams.  <a href="http://zenhabits.net/2009/11/the-short-but-powerful-guide-to-finding-your-passion/">The Short But Powerful Guide To Finding Your Passion</a>.  As potentially mortifying as it feels to me at this very moment, I&#8217;m going to share my list of answers with you guys.  Because, well&#8230;I always keep it real, right?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Here we go.  The first four questions are things that you can answer now.  The last five are tasks that one must take on after the initial questions are answered.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Immediate Questions To Ask Yourself:</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">1) What are you good at?</p>
<ul>
<li>Listening</li>
<li>Giving advice</li>
<li>Making party invitations, favors, etc.</li>
<li>Organizing</li>
<li>Cooking</li>
<li>Teaching</li>
<li>Planning</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;">2) What excites you?</p>
<ul>
<li>Children</li>
<li>Food</li>
<li>Balanced meals</li>
<li>Planning parties</li>
<li>Cooking</li>
<li>Baking</li>
<li>Feeding others</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;">3) What do you read about?</p>
<ul>
<li>Cookbooks</li>
<li>Journals of psychology</li>
<li>Journals of holistic medicine and nutrition</li>
<li>Eating disorders</li>
<li>Holistic treatments</li>
<li>How food affects life and health</li>
<li>How to teach children healthy habits</li>
</ul>
<p style="text-align: left;">4) What have you secretly dreamed of?</p>
<ul>
<li>Writing a book (for children, or how to book for adults)</li>
<li>Consulting low income families on how to eat a more balanced diet</li>
<li>Teaching low income families how to cook healthier</li>
<li>Teaching moms how to feed their babies healthier</li>
<li>Working with a holistic approach for treating disordered eaters</li>
<li>Working in a holistic treatment center that incorporates diet changes for cancer sufferers</li>
</ul>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Ongoing Tasks:</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">5) Learn, ask, take notes&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">6) Experiment, try&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">7) Narrow things down&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">8 ) Banish your fears&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">9) Find the time&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">10) How to make a living doing it&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">
<p style="text-align: left;">So, there ya have it.  I love food.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/i-do-i-love-you.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2212 aligncenter" title="i-do-i-love-you" src="http://www.joggerslife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/i-do-i-love-you-300x268.jpg" alt="i-do-i-love-you" width="300" height="268" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Over the next 1.5-2 years of my life while I&#8217;m completing <a href="http://www.joggerslife.com/2009/uninspired-yet-so-inspired/" target="_blank">my degree</a>, I will be working on points 5-9 in order to decide upon an area where I want to focus.  I&#8217;m leaning towards working with low income families.  It just feels right.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Now, it&#8217;s your turn.  Are there dreams that you&#8217;re not exploring?  Try answering questions 1-4 for yourself, and see what you come up with!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">1) What are you good at?</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">2) What excites you?</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">3) What do you read about?</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">4) What have you secretly dreamed of?</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">And, if you are one of the chosen few who already do what you love and love what you do&#8230;well, high fives all around, because you are awesome.</p>
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