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Surprise Crab Feast!

by on July 20, 2010

What a fabulous weekend!!

I’ve been dying to tell you all about it, but yesterday I was completely wrapped up in this little project…

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(you know…in addition to working)…

Who knew that it would be so difficult to retro-fit cabinets and counter tops into a kitchen that already has appliances?!  It’s turning into more math and spatial planning than I originally anticipated, but I’m really excited for the finished product.  Although technically nothing has even been ordered yet, I’m hoping that the whole project will be done before the end of July–praying for minimal downtime in the kitchen.

But…I’m willing to sacrifice having a kitchen for a while, because when it’s all said and done I’ll have a fun little kitchen that I love!  Small, yet functional.  That’s all I need!

So.

For the past 2 months, it’s killed me that I had to keep a secret from you.  I couldn’t tell you, but I was planning a surprise party for My Gazelle, which went down last Saturday.  After 2 years of hard work and complete devotion, as well as 6 months of being on his Black Belt Cycle (read: no sex, no sugar, no fried food, no sex, no red meat, no sex), he passed his black belt test!

The black belt test was on July 10th, which just happened to be the day before The Boilermaker, which meant that your girl was out of town and could not be in Maryland to celebrate this momentous occasion with her man.  I was very sad that I missed his testing and demonstration, but the knowledge that I was about to surprise him with a super fun surprise summer crab feast was enough to keep my guilt at bay.

I told him 2 months ago that I wanted him to keep Saturday, July 17th free for us to do something fun together with his niece and nephew.  Along the way, I “suggested” that we take the kids to our favorite park (a.k.a. the park where I rented a pavilion), and have a little picnic with them.  I rallied his family together to help me (he has the most amazing women in his family, and they eagerly jumped in and prepared all of the food), and for the past 2 months, have been dying on the inside because I couldn’t really tell anyone about this grand scheme!

The morning of the party, I left the house early to go to the gym, got in a quick workout, and then went over to drop some ice off at the pavilion for the drinks which hadn’t yet arrived.  After that, I went back to the house and helped get the kids ready for our “picnic”!  By the time we left, it was a little after 12PM, and I received word that everyone was running late.  My Gazelle’s Grandma and uncle hooked us up with 2 bushel of crabs fresh from the wharf on the morning of the party, and they were behind schedule due to that trip out to DC.

On the way to the park, I had to waste some time, so we stopped at a local farm stand and bought some fruit and corn, and showed the kids the farm’s turkey’s.  La la la la la la…wasting time…la la la la la…

Eventually, we got to the park, and Grandma still hadn’t yet arrived with the food, but I couldn’t stall any longer.  I parked on the opposite end of the park from where the pavilion was, in the hopes that while we took 15 minutes to walk over, Grandma, the food, and the rest of the family would arrive.  She didn’t arrive until 30 minutes after us, but it was OK.

He had NO CLUE.

We walked right up on the pavilion, and some of the family was outside with their backs turned.

NO CLUE.

His step mom popped her head outside of the door of the pavilion and yelled “SURPRISE!!”, and THEN it clicked.

He cracked up and said “OK, you really got me…”

The bottom line…he was happy.

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Very, very happy.

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The day was very hot and sweaty, but it didn’t stop everyone from having fun.  Some sang and danced.

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Some relaxed and/or tried out their MMA moves on unsuspecting children.

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Some taught the little ones where their feet are supposed go when they throw a ball.

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Others just hung around.

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Me?

I basically just sat and gazed at the lake.

You know…that same lake that I recreated a horror film in did the Celebration Sprint Tri in just a few short weeks ago?

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Yeah.

…and I nonchalantly appreciated all of the hard work that this one has put into his body over the past 2 years…

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There was a lot of appreciation.

Because what’s not to appreciate?

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In all seriousness though…

The party was so fun.  I’m really really glad that he didn’t find out in advance, and that I was able to keep my big mouth shut (not my forte).  We had a ton of food, and it made me realize (again) what an awesome family I’m joining.

So proud of My Gazelle!

  • http://www.melissanibbles.com MelissaNibbles

    I’m drooling over the crab and your man!! HOT DAMN!!

    Congrats to him.

    Good luck with the cabinets.

  • joggersl

    Lol…I know…he’s pretty damn cute. I’m still wondering how I snagged him. He’s a total nerd though, just for the record. I think that makes him even cuter though!

  • http://www.livefortherun.com NIchole

    That was some good suspense. Really looks like y’all had a fabulous time.

    And agree with the above, nice work on the family:) ow ow!

  • http://www.yumventures.wordpress.com Sophie @ yumventures

    I love love love surprise parties! I threw one for my bf before he left for Australia. You’re sounds like it went so well! =)

  • http://www.sideofsneakers.com Heather @ Side of Sneakers

    What a great surprise!!! Maryland crab feasts are the BEST!! :)

  • http://www.priorfatgirl.com Jen, a priorfatgirl

    I really want to comment on your surprise party, I am so impressed…however, I’m stuck on this no sex crap. WTF? I do NOT understand this whole Black Belt nonsense. You apparently have some serious will power lady! Love ya!

  • joggersl

    LOL…well…there WAS this one week in March when he was between his black belt programs. BUT…for the most part, it was abstinence and torture. lol. I won’t say that it wasn’t difficult (I mean…have you SEEN him??), but I knew that he was working towards a goal, and it was very important to him. So I only whined a little bit. =)

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  • http://legallyfitkatie.wordpress.com Katie H.

    Aw congrats to your man for passing! And congrats to YOU for all of that abstaining. I had no idea the requirements for passing were so intense!

  • http://www.sweateveryday.wordpress.com Meredith @ Sweat Every Day

    1. I don’t think I’v ever seen a picture of your Gazelle — damn girl!!!

    2. WHY THE HELL CAN’T BLACK BELTS HAVE SEX DURING THEIR TRAINING!?! I would think that sex would only aid their agility and give them a better attitude in general about the whole thing. Plus, how do you karate chop someone with morning wood? Moving on.

    3. Great job on the surprise :) I grew up in Va Beach so I’m quite accustomed to those Chesapeake Bay crab boils!

  • http://www.anepicchange.com Meredith @ An Epic Change

    Also just realized it auto-filled all my old blog info in. Aww. Cute.

  • http://www.rachelwilkerson.com Rachel Wilkerson

    Oh I thought this said, “Surprise crab FEST” and i was like “OMG, that is NOT a good surprise at ALL!” :)

    Glad you had such a good weekend! And I second all the “DAMN GIRL” sentiments above. SRSLYYYYYYYY.

  • joggersl

    @Meredith:
    1) Yeah, he’s hot as hail…I can’t lie. I also can’t brag, so I won’t tell you anything about how completely devoted, loyal, thoughtful, caring, compassionate, loving, **cough cough** et cetra **cough cough** he is. OK, I bragged. I’m done now.

    2) Seriously, I cannot remember ever laughing at ANY blog comment more than yours. “how do you karate chop someone with morning wood?” I mean…that could be construed in so many different ways, and I’m sure that karate chopping someone with morning wood could actually be much more effective than any of us are willing to admit. The reasons behind why black belts can’t have sex during their cycle is because it is supposed to be a period of abstinence from many things…sort of like a mental and spiritual “cleansing” of sorts. I would also imagine that it’s the same reason why many boxers and athletes don’t have sex within a day or two before a big fight, game, or whathaveyou. I think it’s supposed to incite rage of some sort…encourage the warrior to come out. All I know is that the black belt cycle is over. Hooray!

    @Rachel
    Crab FESTS are no good from what I hear. Thankfully, this was a FEAST, not a FEST.

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